HI! It’s been a while & I’m not even sorry!
We’ve been LIVING and enjoying life and working on something super sweet & in order to do that, more “unplug time” is 100% necessary! We travelled to Nashville a few months ago because I had some shoots to do then spent some time in New Orleans (same-shoots) but we are back in our hometown working on something so exciting!
I haven’t revealed what it is just yet but I’m so close to!
I figured we could utilize what we know here, who we know, and knowing the demographic is always good.
This is honestly something I don’t know much about, but I’m slowly learning. I have been to one of these in almost every destination we’ve been & I figured it would be perfect in our hometown. && why not learn about something new?! Life’s too short, time goes by no matter what you’re doing so I figured WHY NOT?! That’s pretty much been my motto this past year and I really like it. I’ve thoughtfully replaced my “whys” with “why nots” and it’s been so fun!
On a more personal note//
[ & besides my business venture, I was able to spend time with my ex step daughter recently… yes I was married before and I don’t regret it one bit. Hold the judgement- Obviously, the marriage didn’t work out, I KNOW, I still have a wonderful relationship with his daughter and THAT was worth every bit of a failed marriage. I’ve learned divorce doesn’t always have to be a bad thing. Why stay in an unhealthy relationship of any type, anyway?? I tried my best to save it, trust me… but when he chose drugs over every single thing in his life, I didn’t stand a chance. I was in a deep dark place where I never want to visit again and I hope nobody has to stay in something like that. Life’s too short to be unhappy! If anything, we ALL deserve happiness. Needless to say, his daughter and I have grown so much closer as she’s gotten older and I’ve moved on from her daddy… it’s been a really good thing, though. She has a power family and I’m so glad I get to be a part of it still. It’s all about adapting, letting go, growing stronger together, and supporting one another.]
The older I get, the more I see it. I see people tear others down and do things out of spite and just be plain mean.. I don’t want to be that way though. I can’t even imagine the energy that would take. I want to spread kindness and love and happiness and positivity. I feel like we all struggle with judgement and probably some negative emotions here and there, but I strive to let that part of me go, I strive to be better and kinder and truly come from a place of love & I wish others could do the same.
So maybe start your day by assessing your negative thoughts and then asking yourself if they are really necessary? Let go of that person who you thought was your friend, and be ok with the fact that you are estranged from those who have brought more pain to you than you ever wanted. It’ll never be ok but you can make it ok by letting it go.
Life is too short, y’all. We have to take better care of ourselves, of our hearts and souls. We shouldn’t hold on to things that hurt us, we should release them into the universe because that’s how we grow. And when we grow, we can help others heal from their pain.
I’m just to the point in life that I see what’s important and I feel what’s right and what’s wrong. I just want to be better at doing right and helping those around me do the same. You feel me??
I hope you all have a lovely Sunday & remember to let go of those ugly thoughts that are clouding your GOODNESS! You deserve it! To live and serve from a place of love & not hold onto any hate.
WE ALL DESERVE THIS.
((Oh, and stay tuned because I’m spilling the beans here shortly!))